Saturday, September 4, 2010

Mind your Manners: British Etiquette

By: Joanna Lehmann




Everyday Etiquette: Great Britain





Meeting People


In general the British prefer to be introduced to strangers, if at all possible wait for a third party introduction when meeting someone new.





Physical Greetings


Great Britain (especially England) is a non touching culture. When greeting someone a handshake accompanied by a “Pleased to meet you” is appropriate. When departing be sure to shake everyone’s hand, a general group wave as is often done in the United States is not looked on favorably.





Physical Space


The British value space between one another.





Eye Contact


Strong eye contact is not overly common among strangers and casual acquaintances, too much eye contact is considered and invasion of privacy. Eye contact is used when one really wants to make a point, when speaking with close friends, and when interest in a person or topic wants to be stressed.





Good Topics of Discussion


If all else fails mention the weather!





Bad Topics of Discussion


Politics, religion, and sex. Also the common American question “what do you do?” is considered rude and too personal.





Communication Style


The British are a big fan of the understatement; this is shown in their choice of words (“indeed”, “quite”), their volume (almost always quieter than other cultures) and body language (when first meeting facial expressions are kept to a minimum). Gestures are kept to a minimum and a polite self possessed manner is strived for.





Waiting in Line


Waiting in line (or queuing) is a never ending occurrence in the UK. You will find lines at every public facility, event, meet-up, etc. No matter how long the line is always go to the back and wait, and stay in line no matter how long it takes.





Walking


In the United Kingdom one walks on the left hand side and passes on the right.





Shopping


Customer service is not as “in your face” as it is in the United States. Generally a salesclerk will ignore you until eye contact is made signaling service is required.





When shopping at the grocery store be aware that if you touch the fruits or vegetables—you buy them.





Public Transportation


Always wait in line for a taxi, bus or train. When on the bus or train it is polite to give up your seat for the elderly, handicapped, pregnant women and parents with children.





When you board a taxi cab be sure to enter the cab from the opposite side of the driver and to sit in the back.





Tipping


Standard amounts are 10 to 15 percent. Services that are tipped are generally the same as those that are tipped for in the United States.





At a hotel bellmen are generally tipped 1 to 2 pounds per bag.





Appropriate Dress


Styles of dress are similar to those of the USA; however colors are often more muted (especially outside London).





Meal Time


Breakfast is typically from 7 to 9 AM.


A traditional “English Breakfast” is a large hearty meal consisting of: bacon, sausage (“bangers”) toast/croissants/muffins/scones, juice, fried potatoes, eggs, cereal and juice. Tea & coffee are also commonly taken.





A traditional “Irish Breakfast” is called a “fry up” and consists of fried eggs, bacon (boiled pork, the name for American style “bacon” is “rashers”) tomatoes, hot cereal, potatoes and juice.





Lunch is typically from 12 to 2 PM


Standard pub fare tend to make up Lunch—sandwiches, salads, etc.





High Tea & Regular Tea


Standard “Tea” is taken between 4 and 5 PM and consists of cakes, sweets, finger sandwiches and of course—tea.





Traditional High Tea is taken around 5 PM and is often a substitute for Dinner. High Tea includes all the fixings of a standard tea but includes a hot dish as well (pot pie, etc.)





Dinner is typically from 7-9 PM, with 8:00 being the traditional time. Formal dinners begin with an alcoholic drink followed by an appetizer.





Table Manners


The British do not switch their knife and fork as people do in the States. The fork remains in the left hand and the knife in the right hand.





Placing your utensils down on your plate signifies to wait staff that you are finished.





When not in use keep your hands in your lap and pass dishes to the left.





Who Pays?


In general the person who did the inviting is the person that pays.





Punctuality


It is very important to be on time.





English American English





Lift Elevator


Toilet/WC/Loo Restroom/Bathroom


Fortnight 2 weeks


To Knock Up To Wake Up


Surgery Doctor’s Office


Kiosk Telephone Booth


Tube Subway


Subway Underground Walkway


Pants Men’s Underwear


Trousers Pants


Napkin Diaper


Lorry Truck


Flat Apartment


Chips French Fries


Biscuit Cookie


To Ring To Call (on the telephone)





For more travel tips about Great Britain visit Glamour Getaways at http://www.glamourgetaways.com





About the Author


Joanna Lehmann is founder of Glamour Getaways, a women's only tour operator with a "glamour" theme to Europe and beyond. http://www.glamourgetaways.com

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